Well, once again the calendar has turned page and “tis the season”, or so we all say.  Although, when I step back and look at people’s behaviors and actions lately, I often wonder, tis the season for what?  That is probably my cynical side, possibly in overdrive since it’s been rainy and gray this past week.  With Thanksgiving behind us and outdoor activities curtailed due to the weather, I’ve been thinking more lately about how we use “thanks” and “thank you”.  Growing up, we all learned the polite words, “please, sorry and thank you” as basic curtesy when we wanted or received something or made a mistake.  And who hasn’t heard a disappointed parent ask their child “Did you say thank you?”, when the child forgot in their excitement for whatever treat they received?